10 WAYS ON HOW TO FIND OUT WHAT IS A MAN LOOKING FOR (online dating)
Is this guy looking for a commitment or just casual sex?
A lot of women ask themselves that question on daily basis. Now with these apps and social media a lot of folks try to enter our life but who they are and are they worth our time, let's figure out. It could be an easy task if you just listen carefully to what are they saying you can really find out what his intentions are and are you on the same page . There's no need to spend hours talking to him or even to meet and try . Just simply ask yourselves the following questions.
Is he trying to create a connection with you - to find out what are you in, what do you do , how do you spend your time ?
No? Well, I am sorry, madam , but that's the first red signal that your person is not looking for a bond.
What's the words he's using? Just go to the chat and start counting how many times 'sexy' has been used so far?
3. YOUR PHOTOS
Is he asking for too many photos? Asking for too many photos could be also a sign that this guy is not planning to meet you are all but just to have your photos . Many men find it exciting to be sent photos by different women online.
4. INFORMATION HE'S SHARING
Look at the information he's sharing about his personal life or relationship he had so far. How detailed is it and what does it involve? A lot of time men are quite direct with their intentions, they just say what they want , women like to ignore it.
5. HIS PHOTOS
Look at the photos he sends . That's one of the most obvious red flag. Actually i guess the first one, apparently if the man is quite immature and not really experienced. Photos with a lot of flesh are just screaming at you.
6. THE COUNTEROFFER
Let's say you kind of contradict him and say you he's looking for sex only after days talking when you get your aha moment, he comes with a counteroffer of having a date to prove you wrong.
Keep in mind that he'll be trying to make his way to be with you if you go on it and in the meantime planning to ghost after you give in.
7. BED AND SHOWER TIME TEXTING
He's really excited messaging you from bed and shower and not because he's too busy , believe me, but just because this is the time he really truly thinks about you.
8. THE DATE HE'S PLANNING
A lot of men think that in order to receive what they want they should put an effort and investment , so to speak to pay in advance. A lot of women take this as it was an investment in future relationship. It could be too, but that's not a sign for his intentions to commit. Also, some people are just generous or they cannot be emotionally available to you but they want to compensate with a tangible offer.
9. HIS SOCIALS
You friends already on socials? Amazing. Time to start lurking. Anything suspicious ? As too many women involved or totally opposite not too much information, is he trying to hide something from you/?
10. HIS OPINION
Ask him directly: What are you looking for? You can be direct or just ask him in general what does he think about relationships and sex. Remember, men are quite direct , he'll tell you exact what he thinks. Don't ignore it.
So ... are you on the same page? It's good to know from the early stages as otherwise you can get hurt or enter toxic cycles that not worth your time or effort.
Keep in mind that there's nothing bad in casual sex if you want it, just it won't bring you relationship. If you want commitment, have sex when you already have built an emotional connection .
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